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Ready for Home Alone

Leaving a child home alone, even for a short period of time, requires
preparation. Some issues to consider are:

Does the child have enough maturity to be home alone? This depends on the child. Many children maybe ready to spend time home alone by ages 10 to 12, but others aren't. Consider whether your child has shown ability to accept responsibility and make decisions.

Is your neighborhood safe?

Is there an adult neighbor the children can turn to in an emergency? If your
child will be walking home after school, plan a safe route.

Is your child safe at home?

Deadbolt locks on the doors, locked windows, safe wiring and working smoke alarms are essential. Rehearse emergency procedures with your child.

Discuss how to handle phone calls and visitors. Post emergency numbers.

Agree on which appliances can be used.

Will you be available by phone?

Establish a routine for your child to check in with you or another trusted
adult. Call periodically to check on the child. Studies show that children
with high levels of parent monitoring during self-care are less involved in
risk-taking behavior. Set a schedule for the child's activities during his
or her time at home alone.

Have you established ground rules?

Your child should know your expectations concerning chores, snacks, guest,
and restrictions on television, phone or computer use. Set up short trial
run to help your child adjust to being home alone.